Written by
Gill Best, Caelum Coaching
The prospect of redundancy
is a time of fear and extreme uncertainty for many people.
Employees are often left feeling betrayed and
angry, wondering if they are ever going to get another
job. In turn this can lead to feelings of helplessness
and inadequacy, and in extreme cases depression.
However, according to Career Coach Gill Best,
of Caelum Coaching it does not have to be this way.
Too many people are stuck in what
may be considered good jobs but they are not jobs that
are good for them. The illusion of security or a decent salary keeps many people
trapped in employment that is at best unsuitable, and
at worst destructive. Redundancy with its inevitable
shock factor, can be the ideal time to totally re-evaluate
your options and at last go for a career that truly
reflects who you are. .
For some it is an opportunity to
start that business that they have always dreamed of;
or retrain for others it is a career that suits their
innate skills.
Other people
may realise they enjoy the work but need a different
environment that is more suited to their individual
style and where they can perform at their best.
Best strongly believes we owe it
to ourselves to fill our working day with employment
that truly reflects who we are.
“In an average working day we spend up to 12
hours in work related activity, including getting ready
to go to work, travel time, the working day itself and
winding down at the end of the day.
That doesn’t
include the many extra hours we think about work and
let’s not forget that awful “Sunday night” feeling that
so many of us suffer from.
For most people work dominates their lives and
yet so many people are wasting their natural talents.
The result is people who are stressed, companies with
de-motivated employees and talents that are wasted.
“
“We,
as individuals have to wake up to this – we need to
take control of our working lives and for many, redundancy
is an ideal opportunity.
Care needs to be taken though to ensure that
someone doesn’t jump from one unsatisfactory career
into another“.
One option to help people make that all-important decision
is to undertake a programme of career coaching. One person who took this route was John, an IT specialist in
his early fifties who had been made redundant after
a very bitter experience that left him feeling unskilled
and unemployable.
He decided to a complete change of career was
in order and was considering becoming a Teacher.
Through a series of structured sessions, career
coaching helped him identify his career values, his
highest level of skills, his motivation, and the work
environment which would support who he is. The information
was placed within the context of his whole life so that
he could make important work life balance choices.
During coaching John realised that becoming a
teacher would have been a big mistake because it would
not have allowed him to meet any of his career needs.
John is now well on the way to securing
the job that is right for him.
He now values himself and his skills, knows exactly
what he is looking for and can clearly articulate how
he would add value to an employer.
He also knows he can command a far higher salary
than previously, though this is not his primary objective.
He is confident that it is not a question of
if he will find a job that meets his needs but when.
Through this newly found certainty and belief
in himself, John is finding opportunities that he knows
he would never have imagined before coaching.
Best sees this all the time in her coaching practice.
“Once you start to really understand yourself,
your needs and motivations you are far better placed
to make a decision that will not only improve the quality
of your life but will greatly benefit the organisation
you choose to join. That is win-win all round
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